Rosepetals: You Are Prey

 

 

Like a Roaring Lion seeking whom he may devour.

Ladies I just have to say it straight to the heart as usual. If you have low self-esteem and a low sense of self-worth, you are prey.

Carol McKinney Hammond said it best "Deception will meet you at the point of your neediness".

Sadly a LOT of women these days are very needy and desperate for a man. Like a wounded Gazelle you lay on the "dating field" bleeding insecurity. You are prey. No standards
, you lie there waiting to be devoured. Lions spot you 10 miles away in your form fitting half-naked, notice me, "come eat me" attire.

I once heard a comedian say, "If you want to get some tonight, find the fat girl in the club with low-self esteem". Don't get side tracked ladies. This is not about WEIGHT. This is about WHATEVER makes you feel unworthy of good treatment and love. The point that the comic was making (and I have heard other men make) is that if a woman doesn't feel good about herself for WHATEVER reason, you can USE her without a lot of effort. Some of you are reading this right now and you are THE GAZELLE. Wounded and dying inside. Your wound could be your weight, it could be that you are broke, it could be your feeling about the way that you look, your lack of overall self-confidence....whatever it is, men notice and POUNCE, then BOUNCE.

To the predator, you are a joke. You are the woman that a man can use for money, for sex, to cheat with knowningly. You are the woman that a man can call once a month for some tail and you will lay there bleeding all over him with your desperation. He will eat off of your carcass, kill your emotions and leave you for DEAD.

The first thing that you must do to SURVIVE ladies is get off of the FIELD !! Drag your wounded self-worth off of the dating field and out of reach of the predators. Get healed, get strong. FIX that thing that is causing your brokeness. What is it that makes you feel unworthy of a good man, of good treatment, a loving relationship ? Take time and figure it out. You can't run with the herd, you're not strong enough. Each time you try, a new lion comes to take what is left. You don't even recognize the danger.Like a Roaring Lion he sends a text, he calls. Stop being THE PREY. And Start Praying. God will shut the LIONS mouth and you will NOT be devoured. Recognize the ROAR, Stand up strong in your SELF-WORTH and Run !....You deserve to be loved.